I LIVE IN PALM SPRINGS, CALIFORNIA. I AM 43, 258LBS., 6' 4" ,AND GAINED MOST OF MY WEIGHT AFTER AGE 38. I WANT TO GET BACK TO A 34 INCH WAIST. I CURRENTLY HAVE A 41 INCH WAIST. I ALSO DIDN'T WANT TO GO THROUGH ANOTHER SUMMER OF 120+ DEGREE HEAT AND BE THIS BIG. IT IS REALLY UNCOMFORTABLE TO BE THIS SIZE. I AM ALSO SINGLE AND FIND THAT I DON'T HAVE THE CONFIDENCE THAT I HAD TO MEET PEOPLE BEING THIS SIZE. I JOINED A GYM AND I HAVE TO START GOING (I HATE GYM'S). WISH ME LUCK!