kaylinrenee 's dagbok, 29 jan 23

Completely agree with you HCB !! Analysis & advice should only be given when asked for by the journal owner. This is a support site afterall. 

Kaylinrenee: I am only trying to encourage you to get your dream body. At 4'11", you certainly can drop to 100 lbs. and look amazing. I bet you look amazing today, but I don't have to live in your skin, so I just want to reassure you that if you want more for yourself, I believe in your power, and I am cheering you on with easy suggestions. I have never paid attention to life-long obese individuals giving out weight loss tips or criticisms. They have no credibility and have very distorted ideas about what a healthy weight looks like. 

Ok I am not getting into a fight with JB on this thread but you just revealed again your fat shaming attitudes which I have observed over the long term. I will drop it now, but here is the proof pf my statement - your own words. "I have never paid attention to life-long obese individuals giving out weight loss tips or criticisms. They have no credibility and have very distorted ideas about what a healthy weight looks like. " 

Fantastic!! Your hard work has paid off, congratulations. 🎖️🏆🥇🤸 

HCB, although JB's words might sound harsh, I understand what she is saying. The majority of our country is obese. Many of them skinny shame people who are actually at a good size but could use recomposition. When you are obese, your PCP will usually give you parameters and goals to achieve so you get to a "healthy" weight. This goal is generally at the high end of the healthy weight so the patients don't feel overwhelmed and have a better chance at reaching their goal. We do not push them nor expect them to get to a fit body. We want them healthy enough to be off as many meds as possible. You can be healthy without a fit body. If someone wants a fit, AKA lean body, it takes way more dedication. I'm not sure but it sounds like Kaylinrenee is looking to achieve this goal. This does not mean she is unhealthy and it doesn't mean she has body image disorder.  

Unhealthy Daddy, this site is about positive reinforcement, encouragement and support. That is what HCB is saying, and I agree. 

lets all please agree to disagree and move on :) I'll delete any comments about it, after this one. Happy Sunday all! go enjoy it before the new work week begins.  

Way to go! You made it look easy! Congrats! 

thanks DP! it did feel easier this go-around... maybe i want it more now, new body for my upcoming new life ;) 

Great job!!! 

@Cindy, we use body composition charts showing different levels of bodyfat and fitness is generally at the athletic level. You can still go further and get leaner but those will not make you more fit and can be unhealthy to stay at those levels. You can be higher than athletic and be fit but you might not look "fit" as far as appearance goes. It depends on the individual's goals.  

@Daddy: Sent you a PM. @Kaylinrenee: I think you're an unstoppable rock star!🤗 

When one person creates this much of a reaction from normally sane and quiet people, I’d take anything they say with a grain of salt.  

Well done @kaylinree - Brilliant achievement. if it was me I'd stay put for a month and see if any fat redistributes, but I'm slow and lazy... to me staying put at any weight means not gaining, which is a major achievement for me as the moment I blink I put on a kilo. You do you. 51kg is still pretty impressive. :)  

You’re at a healthy way, whether you want to go further or maintain. It’s up to you, congrats 👏 

Congratulations on reaching your goal 💪 

Go you!🙌 Congratulations!👏 

Congratulations! 🎉👏👏 

We’ll done!💪💪 

how tall are you? 4 foot?