A friend told me in a comment that a sensible cheat day once a week was a good way to keep up morale and reset my metabolism.

So while I appreciate and even agree with the concept, I'm going to pick on the wording. It's funny to see the words "sensible" and "cheat" in the same sentence, yet I get what he meant by that. He meant eat more calories, but don't go have a gallon of ice cream! Still, I hate the word "cheat".

I hated it in school, I hate it in a marriage, and I hate it in a diet. In fact, people can call it what they like, but words have a powerful meaning for me.

Sure, it's "just a word", but ask a woman how she feels about certain descriptive words about females, or how black people feel about certain words, and all of a sudden, you realize the power of words.

Words have power. Period. And I choose not to call myself a cheater. Ever.

I AM going to take my friend's advice, but I'm going to call it something different for my own sensibilities: I'm going to say this:

"I choose to have a higher calorie meal once a week to confuse/reset my metabolism during my transformation."

I like this a whole hell of a lot better than, "I cheat on my diet once a week to cheer myself up." And it's far more accurate, too.

Because the truth is, I'm not cheating. I do choose to eat more. It is part of a plan to prevent my metabolism from flipping out again. So since it's part of my plan, it's not cheating.

Thank you for allowing me to rant about this nasty little word.

And by the way: if you want to use this word, I won't hold it against you: it's your choice. But it's just not me or who I am. I know it's just a silly word, but as my identity changes with my weight, I'm finding a lot of things changing along with my dress size, including how I perceive myself.

Thanks for listening.

P.S. All time low weight today. Expecting ups and downs this week, but thrilled nevertheless!
92,8 kg Tappat hittills: 34,2 kg.    Kvarvarande: 25,2 kg.    Kosten följs: 100%.

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WooHoo! MrsMole, your weight history is green now! 
17 jun 14 av medlem: Deb_N
I am actually appreciating logging my food, as sometimes it keeps me from mindlessly eating unnecessary calories. If I have to stop and figure out what the calories are first (which is the only way I do it...I'm kind of obsessive that way), a lot of times I realize that I really don't need to eat and I am just bored or craving because of a commercial. It also keeps me from bingeing on chips or sweets. 
17 jun 14 av medlem: ammittai
In the green, way to go! As far as cheats or whatever we call them, I've gotten disciplined at being able to keep some Hershey's miniature dark chocolates on hand in my desk drawer and at home and eat only one occasionally when I want a treat. Little bites and then let then melt in my mouth...satisfies my chocolate craving, only 40 calories plus some anti-oxidant benefits. 
17 jun 14 av medlem: jmb3450
Okay "cheat" maybe be a bad word but your colleague is right taking a break maybe once every two weeks is fine I do that instead of eating 1000 calories I eat 1500 so i take a little break calm down. 
17 jun 14 av medlem: neonquilt
Good choice! I like confuse. I am often confused so why not by body and maybe it will help. Thanks for your positivity!  
17 jun 14 av medlem: MryJhnsn
Agreed! A bump in calories re-energizes your metabolism so BUMP AWAY! (in moderation :)) 
17 jun 14 av medlem: Socolova
For me it's an awareness of what I'm doing verses mindless actions that put me where I didn't want to be. CONGRATS on your success!!!! 
17 jun 14 av medlem: Christina Maria Thompson
there is no sensible cheat. Me I dont deny myself stuff as you can tell by my food log I just try and stay in that 1500 calorie a day guideline I have set for myself, so if I want a cookie which I love I have two and just don't eat as much dinner. That is a sesible eating in the real world strategy for me. 
17 jun 14 av medlem: Rockiesfan

     
 

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